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    • #15301
      hielepriori
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      Are mixed nationality marriages/relationships a good idea?

      What are your experiences?

    • #106039
      canalon
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      Why would they not be?

    • #106088
      jonmoulton
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      Hybrid vigor is good for kids. You’ll need good humor and patience to find good outcomes when different social structures collide. Deep ties between societies may help stabilize political relationships; it’s a local step toward peace. If you like adventure, I’d recommend it (my wife and I come from different continents and ethnic backgrounds).

    • #106089
      canalon
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      Fully agreed. Patience and understanding are necessary.
      On the other hand, being unable to talk to your in-laws is a curse and benediction at the same time (my wife and I both emigrated to Canada, so our families are spanning 3 continents and 3 languages, and no-one besides the kid speaking more than 2 of those).

    • #106110
      jonmoulton
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      LOL "being unable to talk to your in-laws is a curse and benediction at the same time"

      I’ve been working on Mandarin for 20 years and still can’t converse with my father-in-law. My mother-in-law is patient and tries to help me along. Food and directions – no problem. Technology and philosophy – fall back on pantomime.

      They say that using multiple languages decreases the probability of Alzheimer’s. Does this mean I can use my healthcare account to put dual-language dictionaries? Ah, never mind Canalon, you are in a country with civilized health care and needn’t trouble yourself with American healthcare kludges like the Healthcare Savings Account.

    • #106134
      canalon
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      You are a wonderful man, Jon, I must say that I am not even trying to learn mandarin either. I am absolutely tone deaf, and cause laughter and confusion in my modest attempts. My daughter’s chinese name is Yu-zhu and it is supposed to meansomething along the line of "bamboo in the rain", but when telling her name to a chinese colleague, she asked me why she was "fish stew"…

      But I can tell that in all objectivity my daughter is the cutest and smartest 3 year old in the world. And she can speak mandarin, so she is even smarter than her dad. So obviously hybrid vigour is good for the kids 🙂

      As an aside can you imagine that I sometimes grumble about the failing of the Canadian health care, compared to what I was used to in France. And see why I resist the attempts by my wife to make me find a job in the US. As long as your health care situation is not solved, I will not look for work there.

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